Today I was going to talk about work outfits but instead I’m going to just write what’s on my mind.
I had a therapy session today and it weighed heavily on my heart. We talked about having empathy for those that have hurt us. I struggle with this part. Although I’m a person that has a lot of empathy for others, I can’t seem to find a way to have empathy for the people who are incapable of empathy. In order to fully heal and move on, you have to forgive right? But do you have to have empathy for them? I don’t know. It’s difficult and I guess that’s what I’m trying to figure out.
We also discussed being thankful for what happened to me but also not forgetting or discounting the pain I went through and allowing myself time to work through the trauma. I am beyond grateful for what happened to me. I truly am. It’s crazy to even fathom being grateful for narcissism, infidelity and abuse but somehow it led me to where I am today and for that I am eternally grateful.
It still blows my mind that after everything is said and done, some people that will never change. They will never be happy. They will never be satisfied. They will forever be miserable in their own existence. They will continue to try to bring you down because they can’t stand that you are happy. I truly believe that when someone is rotten to the core, nothing and no one will ever change who they truly are inside. They can change masks and continue to fool the people around them but one day the mask will fall off (again). It’s just a matter of time. I feel sorry for these people and I will pray for them.
On another note, this tie neck blouse is currently 40% off with code: FRIENDS40! So cute for work and would also look great with this pink pencil skirt. I’m also eying this cute shadow spot belted midi dress and this scalloped shell – so cute for work!